What about ex- kind of scene
What about ex- kind of scene, parent is the kid as own pet, own subsidiary, there is no took him for capable person, kid will enjoy, don't need to undertake a responsibility.The kid is a piece of blank sheet of paper, your took him for what, he is what.What I want to tell everyone BE, in fact the latter is the scene of western type, not much see in our China.The parents of China mostly chase a burden back on they and think that the kid is still small, doesn't give him any burden.In fact, this is the negation to kid's ability, also the malpractice to the kid sense of responsibility development.When he is still small, what affair you carry on the shoulder for him, continuously for a long time hence, be he 23 at the age of 10, if he has no ability to undertake a life by himself, he as usual puts living burden on MLB Cap your shoulder, by this time you regret too late.In the growth process, the kid's different stage contains different ability, the parent should every moment let his ability exertion get up and undertake part of responsibilities that oneself can undertake, which afraid only is a symbol of, can also availably develop the kid's sense of responsibility, because each parent would not like to truely tired live to do for kid.It doesn't matter, you have to develop only is the kid's sense of responsibility, don't want to take heavy live a kid tired bad.Time of getting up lets the kid tidy up a quilt by himself[herself];Tour of time, let the kid take his/her own thing;Go to while hasing a meal, the outside makes the kid order one vegetables by himself[herself].BE going to when the kid can make money by himself[herself], Hey, make the kid buy while going out to have a meal a single, etc..The parent does like this, actually is to make the kid understand, the affair in the life is together what everyone undertakes and isn't born and then press on the parents' head.If the parent values the sense of responsibility of developing the kid, so while completing a responsibility, the kid feels own value and also forms proud feeling.Thus, he in the future walk a whichever post, will find out own responsibility place, will carry out own value, take to return to that contented feeling.Common saying says that the ability is more big, the responsibility is more big.Pouring to come over is also similar, be his sense of responsibility is very strong of time, he wills improve his own ability.Who don't hope own kid in the future MLB hats become a homely crest beam, become he-man, become capable virgin?The formation of sense of responsibility is the spirit power of the all these.The development of the sense of responsibility is a long-term process, probably the kid is 56 years old, at the age of 78 don't catch a cold this set of.But don't relate to, the parent wanted to insist over a long period of time and said that this affair was originally what you do, the mother of father did for you today, hereafter can want do-it-yourself.Is also say, even if he is lazy, he wants you to do, and you did for him, but you want to tell your standpoint him.
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